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Stop Arguing with the world

Saying that's not fair is bargaining with how the world should work instead of accepting how it does.

One of the most common mistakes people make is bargaining with how the world should work instead of accepting how it does work. Anytime you find yourself or your colleagues complaining “that’s not right,” or “that’s not fair,” or “it shouldn’t be that way,” you’re bargaining, not accepting. You want the world to work in a way that it doesn’t

When we complain or say things aren’t fair, we are placing the shoving the responsibility of something to the world even though it has already happened. Stop Complaining, it does not solve anything

We start to argue that things shouldn’t be like that. But it is because that is how the world works. Wanting the world to work according to how we think is a bad idea. Because it will never be true.

Thought: This leads me to think that about justice ? If crime happens, should we just let it ? The world always has crime, are we arguing with the world then ?