seedling
how to navigate arguments
Going into a conversation you know you'll disagree in. Acknowledge, find agreement, drop the sweeping claims.
If you are heading into a conversation that you know will be an argument because you have opposing views, it helps to still understand everyone in the room to have more meaningful connections.
Here are a few points to keep in mind.
- First acknowledge understanding. “Let me make sure I understand”
- Then, find specific points of agreement “I agree with you on that”
- Then temper your claims. Don’t make sweeping statements like “you always do that”
The goal is showing that the aim of this conversation isn’t winning, it’s understanding
If you have these conversations online, try Tips to make online messaging better